As we begin 2025 I hold deep gratitude for the gift of a week off that all our staff is given at the end of the year. It was a joyful and relaxing to be with family and friends in Florida where I moved from to serve this congregation. I recall during my interview one of your search committee members began her question with “I’ve been looking at your Facebook page…” I thought, “Uh,oh…is there something inappropriate. What could it be?” Instead, she said, “I notice you post pictures of your morning beach walks almost every day. Are you willing to give that up to come to Asheville?” My answer was yes. As much as I loved living by the ocean, I wanted to work at UU Avl. Steve and I were ready for a new adventure. Seven years later, I still feel we made the right choice. Being able to spend the holidays by the ocean every year is a beautiful gift from the board and the congregation. Thank you!
We launched the new year with sadness knowing that a senseless, tragic crime has in New Orleans on the early morning of Jan 1st. Lives were lost and people were injured. We hold in our hearts the families and communities facing loss at this time. Below is a spiritual practice adapted from a newsletter by Rev. Cameron Trimble to support us in processing this tragedy and many other losses (big or small) in our lives. May this practice bring you peace.
Holding Space for Grief
Today, set aside time to hold space for the grief caused by this tragedy and so many others we have lived through.
Begin by lighting a candle as a symbol of light in the darkness. Sit quietly and allow yourself to feel whatever emotions arise—sadness, anger, fear, or confusion. Now that these feelings matter and acknowledging them is an act of self-compassion.
Next, hold in love and care those affected by the tragedy—families grieving, victims recovering, and first responders who carry the weight of what they’ve witnessed. Name their needs as best you can, and visualize comfort and healing for them.
Finally, reflect on one small act of care or kindness you can offer in response—whether it’s donating to a relief fund, checking in on someone who is struggling, or simply being more present to the people around you.
Let this practice remind you that even in times of sorrow,
love can still move through us and bring light to the world.
Con amor y gratitud,
Rev. Claudia Jiménez
Minister of Faith Formation